Sunday, July 14, 2013

The five things.

A few weeks back, I came across a list of things that I could write here. It's a really interesting list, and we shall see how it'll pan out. 

So here is the first one on the list : Five ways to win my heart.

1. Just be clean, and healthy.
I will not lie and say otherwise. I absolutely love men who smell good and most of all, look well-groomed. He doesn't have to be the best looking one among the crowd, but it's true what people always say, people who smell good are instantly attractive. I concur. 

If there was one thing I could point out to all men, it'd be, just lose the facial hair and long armpit hairs. It's not I want smooth and hairless armpits from men, it's just that, perhaps a little trim would do. 

And how awesome it is to hug a man who smells so damn good? The hug could just go on forever! 

2. Be a true gentleman. 
But, sometimes jerks win hearts, too. And that's a real shame for the entire mankind. I don't know how they get away with it and still be wanted by many. Perhaps they smell TOO good. 

I'm not talking about the ones who'd carry a boombox over to your house and play a nice song or the one who would jump over a rotating ferris wheel just to ask you out on a date. Just men who pay for your meals even though you insist on paying your portion, men who hold the door open for you, men who buy you cakes/ice creams whenever they know you're in need of some pick-me-ups, men who genuinely care about you, men who shy away from idle gossips, men whose manners are close to impeccable and men who are punctual.

I can't say if being a gentleman is a trait men are born with or if it's a skill that men pick up over the time. But what I do know is that being a gentleman is a matter of choice. It brings such happiness when men are genuinely interested in you and care about you. 

3. Have a good sense of humor, but generally keeps himself cool. 
I'm easily amused, and I laugh at even the silliest things. But I have a soft spot for men who are easily amused, too. Probably because I tend to act and say stupid things at the most random times, so I wouldn't want to get the stink eye from men. 

Girls are more at ease with men who are able to crack jokes, because let's face it, laughter is the best medicine, and also the best ice breaker. 

I have a knack for guys who appear cool and collected. There's something so charming about guys that are either sitting or standing calmly in their own personal space rather than constantly be out there, acting like total buffoons. 

If I wanted someone, I'd want someone who would balance my quirks and outgoing attitude.  

4. The one who thinks surprises are the sweetest things he could do for a woman.
I love surprises, good, well-meaning ones of course. I like the extreme gush of happiness whenever someone surprises me with something. I like knowing that he has the effort to show that I mean a lot to him. 

I like knowing that I'm constantly on his mind and that he appreciates both my presence as well as absence. Because a real guy wouldn't stop showing his affection and love for you even after he has gotten you. 

Just imagine coming to work and finding a box of chocolates on your table. That would surely take my breath away. 

5. Encourages me to be a better person. 
But not in a overwhelming way, and definitely not the one who pushes his beliefs down my throat. I come with a lot of baggages, and I definitely cannot stay around someone who thinks my baggages are his troubles. 

I like this quote that says, "When it's right, you'll not feel lost and confused." That's how every relationship should start with, in my opinion. I think I've been so discombobulated for so long, and I need a fresh start. 

It's not that I couldn't make myself better. But I think, when you've been on your own for too long and when someone new comes into the picture, feeling right is one of the greatest feelings on earth. And when you start doing better things, I don't think you would stop, now do you? 

So, that concludes the first item on the list. Perhaps you have your own 5 things, too? :) 

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